It’s good to see you all! May be what I write might seem to be familiar for you but what I am writing is inevitable. Children’s seems to be the blessing of heaven . A barren women is considered as a curse in many parts of the world . So if God almighty have blessed you with the wonderful gift of children, aren’t we supposed to be thankful to God by leading them the right path. May be the westernization and socialist ideologies overrule our minds when it come to the ownership of children, as many of us are the promoters of individuality. Infact we parents have to respect the individuality of children, at the same time we need to keep in mind that God have entrusted them with us so that we will guide and help them in every steps of their life.
Recently a mother named sharanya from Kannur , Kerala, India happen to kill her sweet little baby, since she fell in love with her husband’s friend and she got rid of her baby to get married to him. The news was pretty shocking , since we claim that the love of mother is the purest form of love visible on earth. Let us together analyse what was wrong here. Shall we put the blame on the upbringing of sharanya. The culture starts from our home. when a child takes birth from that time onwards he /she is adhering and observing the life’s of people he / she is surrounded with. The culture and moral standards that he / she picks up in life is from the surroundings were they grow up , therefore a family got vital role in the development of any child’s behavioral pattern.
Now what I am going to speaks is of vital importance, so try to understand everything that we are going to discuss here.
A child at the very young age beats anyone elder to them ,we parents tend to laugh at it,not only that we infact try to hold the child’s hand and do the action of beating others. We laugh at it when they do it as a toddler. When they lie about the small sibling fights, when they tear the pages, when they scribble on the book, when they become angry and speak harshly to anyone elder than them, and when they use unacceptable words, we tend to ignore and we tend to laugh on it. Dear parents, everything starts there, that ignoring and taking it light is the start of our child rottening behaviour. From the time he / she is born admonish and reprimand them ,when needed lovingly and otherwise firmly .
As we all know child is like a sponge, babies starts their character development at the very time they are born to this world . So correcting them when they are toddler is necessity. I hope you understand when I say it is a necessity, in other case it’s deadly since we are going to be the birth givers of brood of vipers, seeking the destruction of our world.
I am sharing the growth chart of a child in the first year after he/she takes birth in this beautiful world.( Sometimes I doubt what adjective shall I give to this world now. Hahahaha)
In this if you see the first 8 months of the child’s development is of less importance for parenting but after that it’s crucial. 9th month baby understands the meaning of ‘No’, but they will not give ear to you until they know the word ‘no’ is conditional, means if they don’t give ear to it there is punishment attached to it. The safest time period of punishing your child and inputting the basic characteristics is from the 9th month to the age of 10 . This is the time children are close to you and that consider parents to be keepers of them. So this is the time my dear parents we have to instil the moral behaviour, patterns and characters that we want to see in our child .
Lets us together learn and discuss here for being a better parents who got to gift to this world some wonderful human beings. Together let’s build our nation
Love you all , waiting to here from you all. Hoping to see you all soon with another parenting tips to nurture and nourish the gift God has entrusted us .
Parenting - children are the grapes of your vineyard 
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